I like this Gazal... which is really so true....
Har taraf har jagah beshumaar aadmee
phir bhi tanhaaiyon ka shikaar aadmee
subah se shaam tak bojh dhotaa hua
apanee hi laash ka khud mazaar aadmee
har taraf bhaagate daudate raaste
har taraf aadmee ka shikaar aadmee
roz jeetaa hua roz martaa hua
har naye din nayaa intezaar aadmee
zindagee ka muqaddar safar dar safar
aakhree saans tak beqaraar aadmee
I always wondered we all are surrounded by so many people...still we are so alone....
People who party or are very social or those who lives with full fledged families and often go out, everyday they go to clubs and social gathering ... they are not alone and they are not tanhaa......as far as I know and seen people....we all are Tanhaa...somewhere or other....reasons can be different....
People who have money power family, everything which a person needs to survive...still they are lonely....looking for something more which is more meaningful and something to which they can call there own.....what is that something???
everyone has a different definition for that Something..... for that need which money, power, fame, materialistic things......can not fulfill ....
why they are in to that situation....
Most people who are looking for love “out there” are actually just running away from loneliness. They constantly settle for less than what they want, and less than what they deserve, because their greatest fear is to be alone, grow old alone and die alone.
For me - I long for companionship deep unconditional and everlasting companionship.............always I have just dreamt about it...
To be with someone....where no doubt exits, no selfishness, no motives, petty games,no hidden agenda, no ill feelings, no anger, no ego exits....
In fact you know in advance that your heart will be broken. You will be lied to, you will be taken for granted; you will be hurt and disappointed. Sooner or later, between here and your deathbed, you will have to say goodbye. You know it, you accept it, and you love anyway.
is that a realistic feeling....I don't know yet....failed to understand ...why things cant be simple....why we cant separate our agenda towards materlistic goals or any other professional goals from our personal life.
Why two people cant be in a relationship or together or can be a soul mate for each other not for any gains...
Why Love Can't be just Love...why it has to be materialized too.
Why people want something or other on that name of LOVE ...why it can be selfless...without any motives.
If you love a person, you help that person experience the completeness of aloneness. You don’t try to fill them up and complete them by your presence. You want them to not be in need of you.
Most of us has fallen in love at some or other time in life......how many of us can really vouch that we love other person selflessly...not for some or reasons....
Once you’ve fallen in love deeply, you yearn for that love; you wish to find it again. You become lonely. You begin to fantasize and create a reality that doesn’t actually exist. Then you fall in love with someone unworthy of it.
How many of us can say...I will do anything or everything in my hand to be with that physically, mentally or emotionally when required without calculating profit or loss, without any EGO, without any other thought..... Just to be with that person because He or she needs you in that hour, very few people I guess....selfless LOVE is rare.
Those who have got they are the most rich and luckiest people on this Earth.
Har taraf har jagah beshumaar aadmee
phir bhi tanhaaiyon ka shikaar aadmee
subah se shaam tak bojh dhotaa hua
apanee hi laash ka khud mazaar aadmee
har taraf bhaagate daudate raaste
har taraf aadmee ka shikaar aadmee
roz jeetaa hua roz martaa hua
har naye din nayaa intezaar aadmee
zindagee ka muqaddar safar dar safar
aakhree saans tak beqaraar aadmee
I always wondered we all are surrounded by so many people...still we are so alone....
People who party or are very social or those who lives with full fledged families and often go out, everyday they go to clubs and social gathering ... they are not alone and they are not tanhaa......as far as I know and seen people....we all are Tanhaa...somewhere or other....reasons can be different....
People who have money power family, everything which a person needs to survive...still they are lonely....looking for something more which is more meaningful and something to which they can call there own.....what is that something???
everyone has a different definition for that Something..... for that need which money, power, fame, materialistic things......can not fulfill ....
why they are in to that situation....
Most people who are looking for love “out there” are actually just running away from loneliness. They constantly settle for less than what they want, and less than what they deserve, because their greatest fear is to be alone, grow old alone and die alone.
For me - I long for companionship deep unconditional and everlasting companionship.............always I have just dreamt about it...
To be with someone....where no doubt exits, no selfishness, no motives, petty games,no hidden agenda, no ill feelings, no anger, no ego exits....
In fact you know in advance that your heart will be broken. You will be lied to, you will be taken for granted; you will be hurt and disappointed. Sooner or later, between here and your deathbed, you will have to say goodbye. You know it, you accept it, and you love anyway.
is that a realistic feeling....I don't know yet....failed to understand ...why things cant be simple....why we cant separate our agenda towards materlistic goals or any other professional goals from our personal life.
Why two people cant be in a relationship or together or can be a soul mate for each other not for any gains...
Why Love Can't be just Love...why it has to be materialized too.
Why people want something or other on that name of LOVE ...why it can be selfless...without any motives.
If you love a person, you help that person experience the completeness of aloneness. You don’t try to fill them up and complete them by your presence. You want them to not be in need of you.
Most of us has fallen in love at some or other time in life......how many of us can really vouch that we love other person selflessly...not for some or reasons....
Once you’ve fallen in love deeply, you yearn for that love; you wish to find it again. You become lonely. You begin to fantasize and create a reality that doesn’t actually exist. Then you fall in love with someone unworthy of it.
How many of us can say...I will do anything or everything in my hand to be with that physically, mentally or emotionally when required without calculating profit or loss, without any EGO, without any other thought..... Just to be with that person because He or she needs you in that hour, very few people I guess....selfless LOVE is rare.
Those who have got they are the most rich and luckiest people on this Earth.
