Its unfortunate that my sons dad did’t even call up on his another birthday. Should I be surprised but guess not? Should my son be upset? Heck yeah its his father. Its bad enough that he is not able to see him even once a year, so his father should certainly take the time away from his other family and work to be with his only son on his special day. Well that is what I think. Maybe I am wrong? My point is no matter what his father feels towards me he shouldn't deny his son.
It's hard isn't it? When you see your child so patiently waiting for "dad" to show up.He sits so still and never takes his eyes off the road and every phone bell that’s rings…he thinks its his call. What to say when dad doesn't show up? It can make you angry and sad to see your son try so hard to put on a brave face,when you know deep down inside he's hurt. .He is just 7 and soon enough he will figure out whether or not his dad is worth getting upset over.
I try very hard to bite my tongue and say nothing,but deep down inside all I want to is call him an "irresponsible, but I don't. This will only make me feel better for a short time while it stings my son for a long time.
how can someone ignores his own kid.. his own family.. son who is part of him in every sense...crazy and a big time loser ( sorry to use the word but cant find better and less harsher word than this).. Move on Tanush, you are too too good to have someone like him..
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